FOREPLAY DO’S AND DON’T’S
Now that we’ve given you a whole section on the techniques of amazing foreplay, here are some Important Foreplay Do’s and Don’t’s that you’ll want to keep in mind:

Always kiss her first. Don’t stampede toward the clitoris, or you’ll make her feel like a whore.Kissing is the best way to get her juices flowing, so make it long, passionate and imaginative.You can certainly apply the French Kiss here, as well as nibbling lightly and sucking on her lips. Hold her face in your hands, play with her hair… be romantic!

Whisper Sweet Nothings.Yes, it really works.Women love to hear how sexy they are and how much they turn you on.

Don’t pressure her.Unless she’s into domination, barking orders is not going to arouse her.Take your time and both of you enjoy the moment.

Watch the tongue!Tonguing and French Kissing are both great, but don’t jam your tongue down her throat so deep that she gags.

No hickeys.What is this, the junior prom?Kiss, lick, and caress her neck, but don’t leave mark marks.

Nibble her ears.Trust us on this one!It never fails.

Take your time undressing her.Don’t rip her clothes off like you’re playing “Beat the Clock”.Women love to be teased as much as men.Drag out the anticipation of erotic pleasure yet to come.

An Erotic Massage is always nice.Women love to be rubbed and massaged.Dousing her with warm oil only adds to the sexiness she’s already feeling. Work your fingers into her flesh and spend a little extra time on the butt.

No Nipple-Biting.As we mentioned earlier, there’s a right way and a wrong way to handle a woman’s chest.Chewing and suckling are not turn-ons.. they’re downright painful.Also remember that many women are sensitive about their breasts, so be complimentary.Even is she’s small in that area, compliment the beauty of her chest.

Go Downtown more often.Women love it, but only if it’s done well.You should be excited about doing it (if you’re not, she won’t be either).Start with your fingers and progress to the tongue.Focus on the whole pussy area, not just the Golden Spot.Use variations… don’t just stick your finger in her vagina and wiggle it.You can also use your other hand to caress her thighs, her butt, her breasts.Also, be aware of your facial stubble and long sharp nails that might cause her discomfort.

Be aware of when NOT to go downtown!She’ll probably let you know when she’s on her period, but look for telltale tampon signs.Of course, some men like performing oral sex during a woman’s time of the month (personally not our cup of tea!), but that’s a decision to be made by you… and her.

No fisting!Maybe she likes this sort of thing, but NEVER presume anything about a woman where sex is concerned.Especially something like this.

Be courteous during fellatio.When it’s your turn to receive oral sex, here are three things to remember- (1) most women don’t like it when you grab their head or hair and hold it in your cock region, (2) don’t ram your dick down her throat like a battering ram, and (3) let her know if you’re about to cum.Yes, many women love to swallow.. even still, give her the option of choosing whether or not she wants to drink your love juices.On the same subject, don’t cum on her face or in her hair.

Use toys at your discretion.If things are progressing swiftly, you may not want to take the time to pull out the dildo.At this point, she may want the “real thing”, not some battery operated piece of plastic.On the other hand, many women (and men!) love to be stimulated with vibrators, wands and pocket rockets.Again, this needs to be a mutual decision.

Nothing too kinky.If you don’t know her or her sexual tastes, it’s probably best if you don’t bring out the whips, the sheep, or whatever twisted things you’ve got in your closet.Making her wear a collar or peeing on her definitely will NOT score you any points.

So, had enough foreplay? Ready to get on to the serious stuff? Next section…