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HOW TO FRENCH KISS
One of
love's most intimate moments is the French kiss. The French call
this the soul kiss. In the most simplistic definition,
it's a kiss with tongue! Its the easiest way to feel close
to someone, but can also be a huge turn-off if done incorrectly.
So what is the right way?
To start, the mood should be right. You do not want to stumble
over the other person at a local fast food restaurant and stick
your tongue in his or her mouth. You want to wait for the right
time, perhaps after you're already kissing and start to pull
your bodies closer together.
Always start off with a regular kiss. Then, slowly start opening
your mouth, while still keeping it dry! Using both of your lips,
"hug" her bottom lip and close with another dry kiss.
After a couple of these soft, affectionate smooches, SLOWLY slide
part of your tongue into her mouth. In order to avoid a potential
embarrassment, make sure their mouth is open before doing this!
If she then opens her mouth more, thats your cue that a
more intense French kiss (more tongue) is OK. If not,
just stick to a little bit of tongue and pull back occasionally
to observe his/her reaction, while still giving him/her little
"pecks."
MORE TONGUE:
If you're ready for full-on tongue action, keep a few things
in mind that can turn a memorable kiss into a disaster. One is
never let a wad of saliva accumulate in your mouth swallow
it! Two, don't turn your tongue into a sharp pointed object relax
it. Three, move your tongue on or around your womans tongue.
The "dead slug" thing is a huge turn-off. Now with
that in mind, and a good opportunity, keep sliding more of your
tongue into her mouth until you are completely enveloped in each
other. When you reach this point, try to keep your mouths a little
tighter. This is just a way to avoid a messy or sloppy kiss.
Remember; keep your tongues relaxed, but not your mouths. There's
nothing worse than pulling away and feeling like a large dog
has licked you.
As more opportunities come about, the
better a French kiss will get. It takes time, and a bit
of practice, but it will be easier each time. Don't overanalyze
it or stress too much. Just relax and enjoy the moment! |